Living in the Age of Anxiety: Why So Many Americans Feel On Edge

It’s no secret—anxiety is on the rise. Across the country, more people report feeling restless, worried, and unable to turn their minds off at night. What used to feel like occasional stress now lingers as a constant hum in the background of daily life.

Why is this happening? And more importantly—what can we do about it?

Why Anxiety Feels So Unrelenting

Modern life places demands on our minds and bodies in ways that past generations didn’t face. Some of the biggest contributors include:

Uncertainty everywhere. Political divisions, economic instability, and world events can leave us feeling like the ground is constantly shifting.

Always “on.” Smartphones and social media mean we rarely get true downtime. The constant flood of information—much of it negative—keeps our nervous system activated.

Financial pressures. Rising costs, student loans, housing instability—these are daily stressors that don’t just go away when we close our eyes at night.

Cultural expectations. There’s pressure to achieve, stay productive, and project an image of having it all together. That pressure often leaves us feeling “never enough.”

The result? For many, anxiety isn’t a passing worry anymore—it’s a daily state of being.

How Anxiety Affects Both Mind and Body

Anxiety doesn’t only live in our thoughts. It shows up in our bodies too. People experiencing chronic anxiety often report:

  • Racing thoughts and difficulty focusing

  • Sleep problems—trouble falling asleep, staying asleep, or waking too early

  • Physical tension in the neck, shoulders, or stomach

  • Headaches, digestive issues, or a sense of constant restlessness

Left unchecked, these symptoms can wear us down, creating a cycle where worry fuels physical stress and physical stress fuels more worry.

Why Therapy Helps Break the Cycle

When anxiety becomes part of daily life, therapy offers both relief and long-term skills. A therapist can help you:

  • Understand what triggers your anxiety and why it lingers

  • Learn evidence-based techniques to quiet racing thoughts and reduce avoidance

  • Improve sleep and restore your body’s ability to reset

  • Reframe unhelpful patterns of thinking and find new ways to cope with uncertainty

  • Rebuild confidence in your ability to handle life’s challenges

  • Anxiety thrives in isolation. Having a safe space to process what you’re feeling and to learn new strategies is often the first step toward lasting change.

Small Steps You Can Try Today

While therapy provides the strongest foundation for recovery, there are steps you can start right now:

  • Set boundaries with news and social media. Check at scheduled times instead of staying plugged in all day.

  • Practice short pauses. Even two minutes of slow, intentional breathing can reset your stress response.

  • Protect your sleep. A consistent bedtime routine helps lower nighttime anxiety.

  • Move your body. Gentle activity like walking or stretching can ease both physical and mental tension.

  • Stay connected. Talking to a trusted friend, family member, or therapist reduces the sense of carrying anxiety alone.

Finding Calm in an Anxious World

It’s easy to feel like everyone is anxious right now—and in many ways, that’s true. But you don’t have to live in a constant state of worry. With the right support and strategies, it’s possible to break free from the cycle of anxiety and reclaim a sense of calm.

If anxiety has started to shape your daily life, reaching out for help may be one of the most important steps you take toward your mental health and well-being.


Julie Kolzet, Ph.D.